In my conversation with Jamila, I asked her to share some practical tips for building family amongst various people groups. Jamila's response was simple yet incredibly profound: “I want to encourage us to relate to one another and seek to find the commonalities behind our differences”, and
“I want to encourage us to accept what we hear without a desire to change on another.” These are statements I could not agree with more. The simple yet profound moments we have with people determine whether we will anchor in love and compassion or in judgment and rejection. I encourage you to seek to truly love your neighbor as yourself, seek to find commonalities, and sit with them in the differences. Make room for the awkwardness, and welcome the discomfort as you learn their story. The fear of stepping on each other's toes won’t be as great if your connection is rooted in love.